Day Before
The day before the wedding we
will be decorating the church, having the wedding rehersal, and
decorating the reception hall in the evening. If you wish to help
decorate the reception hall please contact the bride or groom for more
details. All help is appreciated and welcome.
Wedding Day
The day starts for the guests
at the wedding itself of course. Following the ceremony the guests
will make their way to the Reception Hall for cookies and snacks while
the Bridal Party sticks around for photos. While waiting for the
bride and groom please take the time to sign the guest book and photo
frame in the entry way. The bar will be open
at this time and will stay open till the party ends. And remember,
all proceeds from the bar go to the bride and groom to help pay for the
wedding. So drink up, but drink responsibly.
Once the wedding party arrives
they will be announced as they enter the hall. We will start off
the party with the traditional toasts, the blessing of the food, then
the dinner. Following dinner we will
have the cutting of the cake.
After the cake we will need to
clear away some tables to make room for the dance floor. Please
bear with us at this time. Any help is appreciated, if you decide
to help ask the Reception Hall Manager what you can do. Once the
dance floor has been cleared the dancing can begin. The
traditional first dances will include:
-
Bride and Groom
-
Bride and Father
-
Groom and Mother
After the opening dances the
bouquet and garter will be tossed, and there will be some open dancing
time to loosen up before the Dollar Dance. The traditional rules
that I grew up with are in effect. Pay a dollar (or more, no
change given), take a shot (if 21 or over), and get some dancing time
with the bride or groom (your choice). We will continue to have
the Dollar Dance until the line dies down, then go back to an open dance
floor till the end of the party.